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Coder, Brett M.F.T.

Phone Number: 
(530) 220-2909
Business Address: 
260 Russell Blvd
Suite D-1
Davis, CA 95616

Coder, Brett M.F.T.

Specialize in working with polyamorous/non-monogamous individuals as well as kink/BDSM and other alternative relationships. Sex positive and LGBTQIA+ affirmative. I focus my efforts in therapy on instilling resilience and wellness for you internally as well as externally in your relationships. Some examples of what this might look like include: acting in congruence with your boundaries and ethics; "owning your shit" and taking responsibility for managing your emotions without displacing them onto others; identifying and communicating your needs and desires in relationships; cultivating compassion, curiosity, and mindfulness; and progressively taking risks that allow your vulnerable side to be seen, heard, and valued. I’m excited to help polyamorous and other students be more resilient in themselves and their relationships. In terms of clinical style, clients experience my patience and compassion but know that I’ll persistently challenge them to create and capitalize on opportunities for growth. We make use of insights from interactions between us to explore how you might stay stuck in relational or behavioral patterns that hold you back. Our working relationship is grounded in collaboration with a dynamic that's neither passive listening nor super-structured. My style is personable (within professional boundaries) and not overly ‘clinical’ or rigid. If my style and background seem to fit your needs, send me a message request through my website or call me and let’s connect! I look forward to hearing from you :)
Out-of-Pocket Fee: 
private pay: $120 for 50 min session; group therapy $30 for 75 min session
Gender: 
Male
Degree/License: 
M.F.T.
City: 
Davis
On SHIP Panel: 
Yes
Areas of Expertise: 
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Other
Other Areas of Expertise: 
Polyamory & Ethical Non-monogamy; BDSM/Kink; Generalized Anxiety, Depression, Major Life Transitions
Practice Orientations and Special Techniques: 
CBT